Be Tender to Yourself

The month starts out on a light and playful note with Venus, your ruling planet, in easygoing Gemini. The tide starts to turn on May 6, as penetrating Pluto opposes Venus and brings hidden relationship issues into focus. Control, manipulation, jealousy and resentment are discordant themes that can upset your emotional apple cart. But don't hide from your deeper feelings no matter how uncomfortable they are. This opposition brings on a relationship spring cleaning that airs out problems in a current relationship or helps you overcome old blocks about yourself that get in the way of love.

On May 8, loving Venus sidles into sensitive Cancer and encourages you to engage in more sweet talk. Conversation is the key to connecting now, as words count as much as a kiss. Your lover should be like your best friend, with no secrets to keep you apart. If you're single, spend time with an emotionally supportive friend who helps you feel more comfortable with yourself. You could find yourself thinking about a partner from your past when times between you were easy. Remember that feeling and set aside thoughts of disappointment. Like a new born colt, you might not be steady on your feet. Be as gentle with yourself as you can, and avoid individuals who aren't equally kind. Love can grow in your life, but it requires as much tenderness as you can find.

About the Author
Jeff Jawer is the co-author of Barnes & Noble's 'Your Astrology Guide 2007.' A professional astrologer since 1973, his articles have appeared in astrology journals and magazines and Web sites around the world. He holds a B.A. in The History and Science of Astrology from the University of Massachusetts at Amherst and teaches and lectures both in the United States and abroad.