Libra (Sept. 23 to Oct. 22)
For the sign that's all about relationships, a breakup feels like true failure. Libra will often hang on until the bitter end, aiming for that elusive harmony. Be willing to attend couples counseling if you're asked. If that doesn't work, appeal to Libra's sense of justice by saying it isn't fair to either of you to continue in a situation that just isn't working.
If you're a Libra: Bite the bullet, speak your peace and be determined. You, of all people, are destined for relationship bliss -- even if it takes a few tries to get there. Don't settle!
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Scorpio (Oct. 23 to Nov. 21)
Not everyone can handle the intense, passionate and sometimes demanding Scorpio. If you're out of your depth or comfort zone, say so sooner rather than later -- once this sign has claimed you, it's hard to shake them loose. Don't ever betray them or sneak around -- they'll nail you for it. Speak honestly, act boldly and hold to your resolve.
If you're a Scorpio: Betrayal spells breakup for you, even if there was no intent to harm. Blame and revenge are counterproductive, but burning your ex in effigy can be cathartic.
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Sagittarius (Nov. 22 to Dec. 21)
Giving the Sagittarian a "long leash" should fulfill their need for freedom. But if you still need more intimacy or commitment than they can provide, explain that you're just an incompatible match. Be prepared for a possible scene, though. They may fuss and fume, but will get over it fairly quickly.
If you're a Sagittarius: Telling the unvarnished truth is your style, but take care your bluntness doesn't leave lasting wounds. And, don't elaborate endlessly on your reasons.
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Capricorn (Dec. 22 to Jan. 19)
Having a well-thought-out exit plan lets the Goat know you're serious about breaking up. They may not show their feelings, but they don't give up easily and may offer you various incentives to give it another try. Be sure to express gratitude for all they've given you, even if you felt it wasn't enough, and you'll be able to part on good terms.
If you're a Capricorn: You keep a stiff upper lip, so others can be shocked to find out you are unhappy. Discuss things with your soon-to-be-ex -- don't spring it on them as a done deal.
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Aquarius (Jan. 20 to Feb. 18)
Stressing your need for greater freedom is speaking an Aquarian's language. They're not that good at intimacy, and they know it -- so don't rub it in. They make great friends, though, and will probably be glad to remain buddies with you. Don't mistake a cool reaction for lack of caring. Encourage them to get emotional -- it's good for them.
If you're an Aquarius: Disappearing or becoming unavailable isn't a good strategy for a breakup. If you leave your partner guessing, you're asking for trouble. Be direct.
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Pisces (Feb. 19 to March 20)
The Fish will hang on to you forever if they feel you need them. Therefore, becoming more self-reliant is your first step. Then, let Pisces know how much you adore them, but that you have to move on. If they've put you on a pedestal, don't be afraid to step off and show your true self -- but try not to hurt their sensitive feelings in the process.
If you're a Pisces: Don't be wishy-washy about breaking up, especially if someone is taking advantage of you. Being too nice or vague about your needs won't set you free.
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About the Author
Simone Butler is an intuitive astrologer with more than 20 years of experience in helping people engage with the mystery of their lives. She has taught many astrology classes and workshops. Her daily forecasts are featured in the Starscroll, and her articles have appeared in The Mountain Astrologer magazine. She has worked with 12 Signs, Inc. since 1992. Simone lives in a rural hideaway in Escondido, Calif., with her cat, Queen Bess.
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