By Simone Butler
Provided by Tarot.com
The interplay of opposites is what makes the game of love so much fun. Our differences, however, can inadvertently -- and unforgivably -- offend our partner. What may be perfectly acceptable to an Aquarian -- such as canceling a date at the last minute to help out a friend -- could be a deal-breaker for a Cancer, who takes it personally and concludes you don't care. If you're a Capricorn who insists on escaping into your cave rather than talking things out, your Gemini partner -- to whom communication is everything -- may see no choice but to give you the boot. Some things are universal deal-breakers: paralyzing addictions, psychosis, physical abuse. Beyond that, here are some specific no-no's for each sign.
Aries (March 20 to April 19)
The Ram can laugh off a lot of things -- like teasing -- that might offend more vulnerable types. But if this sign feels they've been relegated to last on your list, they may end up looking for greener pastures. Remember that Aries has to be No. 1 -- whether it's by winning a triathlon or receiving your loving attention. If your Aries woman thinks you are no longer turned on by her, she's apt to call it quits. And, never compare your Ram unfavorably to other men you've been with, no matter how mad at him you are -- he may never be able to let it go.
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Taurus (April 20 to May 20)
Don't ever lie to a Taurus. They're the most honest folks around, and expect the same from you. Unless their birthday is involved (in which case little white lies will be forgiven), it's essential to be straightforward. The Bull's keen instincts will sniff out untruths, anyway, so there's really no point in trying. A little mystery is intriguing to this sign, though, so you don't have to share every detail. But when it comes to the big stuff -- like the fact that you've been seeing someone else or you charged that big-screen TV on their credit card without asking -- failure to own up could have serious consequences.
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Gemini (May 21 to June 20)
For a sign that shares everything -- often obsessively -- Gemini's living hell is being left in the dark. What is he really thinking? What did she mean by that? These are the kinds of questions that keep the Twins up at night. So, if you want to keep relations smooth, don't assume your Gemini knows what's up. They want to hear it from you, directly. Your consistent unwillingness to change or be flexible may also send this sign packing. And, being too possessive -- infringing on their freedom to come and go as they please -- can also be a deal-breaker.
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Cancer (June 21 to July 21)
Wounding a sensitive Cancer's feelings is an unforgivable sin. And, unfortunately, it's easy to do, as this sign takes everything to heart. They may let little things -- like not complimenting their new outfit -- slide, but don't ever forget their birthday or ignore them all night at a party. The moonchild needs a nurturing touch, which they willingly give in return. Whatever you do, never let your frustrations build to the point that you unleash a nasty torrent on this person's head. Once attacked, they will withdraw into their shell, and may never trust you again.
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Leo (July 22 to Aug. 22)
The Lion needs a partner who makes him look good. So, always be at your best when you're out together. Never embarrass this person in public or with close friends. Drunken displays, one-upping him or loudly proving how wrong he is can be grounds for dismissal. And, be careful not to wound her pride by flirting with an old girlfriend or keeping her in the corner while you monopolize the spotlight. Let the Lion think he's in charge -- even though the opposite may be true -- or you run the risk of permanently alienating him. Also, never use sex as a reward or punishment.
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Virgo (Aug. 23 to Sept. 22)
Poor hygiene is a deal-breaker for this fastidious sign. Two showers a day and regular teeth-cleanings are a must or Virgo just won't be comfortable with you. And, a messy, dirty home or car could turn her off for good. Cleanliness is truly next to godliness for this person, and that includes your thinking. Don't stay stuck in a cesspool of negative thoughts or go off on tirades about the government or global warming without taking action to change things. Those who are willing to clean up the mess win Virgo's respect; couch potatoes get left behind.
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