Challenging, difficult, doomed ... if you're in a long distance relationship, you've heard all of the negatives by now. What you may not know is that your relationship has just as much chance of surviving as partnerships where both people live in the same place.
Just like all relationships, the long distance variety requires trust, communication and a great deal of work. You can use your Sun sign's strengths to meet these challenges. Read on for tips that fit your astrological profile.
Aries (March 21 to April 19)
Aries, you love a challenge ... so you were probably really fired up about your long distance relationship initially. Putting forth the effort required for the long run is another matter. If your goal is to stay in love while the miles separate you, watch out for your tendency to be distracted by what appears new and exciting.
Taurus (April 20 to May 20)
Your strength in any relationship is keeping romance alive. You have a natural talent for treating your loved one to sensual pleasures you both enjoy. When you aren't together, keep up the flow of delights by sending your lover meaningful surprises, such as a scented candle that has romantic associations for both of you.
Gemini (May 21 to June 20)
Yak, yak, yak ... communicating long distance comes naturally to you, Gemini. Make sure you use your phone time wisely. Rather than frittering it away with your witty patter, keep your lover informed of important events and your deepest feelings. The best way to build trust is to be authentic.
Cancer (June 21 to July 22)
You may find yourself arguing in favor of meeting at your place again and again, Cancer, but it's time to be fair. Split the air travel stress equally by alternating locations for visits. When packing, resist your urge to take every creature comfort you can think of. Instead, encourage your partner to incorporate what you like into his or her home.
Leo (July 23 to Aug. 22)
When the phone, IMs and emails are the major ways you communicate, you can't rely on your sunny smile and warm charm like you do in face-to-face interactions. Choose your words carefully so your partner doesn't misinterpret your tone. And save difficult conversations for when you are together.
Virgo (Aug. 23 to Sept. 22)
Virgo, you love to plan ... so use your organizational skills to create a long-range plan for your relationship. Talk about your future and agree on how long you will live apart. Discuss the possibility of relocating and set a possible timeline. Re-evaluate your plans from time to time and maintain a flexible attitude.
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