You meet a guy and the phone conversation goes well. You begin talking everyday and seeing each other multiple times a week, then "poof" the conversations die down and he starts making excuses about seeing you again.
Here is how you know he has lost interest in you:
The phone calls only come once every two weeks, seldom or none at all.
"Let me call you back" but you don't ever hear from him or he takes over 7-10 days to call back.
He says, "we make good friends," "we are better as friends" or "let's just be friends".
Your conversation or communication only stays online or in email.
He would rather spend more time with friends, family or with the dog then spend time with you.
He says, "I'm just not ready for a relationship" which translates to "I just don't want to get into a relationship with you".
He says, "I want to take it slow" which translates to "I want to keep my options open".
You are known or seen as the "sex buddy".
Too often, we don't listen to these signs and instead rationalize these statements by telling ourselves "he is going through a tough time at work, home, going through a divorce, bad break-up or major loss in his life".
If he isn't suggesting that you get together again, planning a night out or calling you to catch up, then he isn't that interested anymore. When someone is still interested, they make the effort to start developing the relationship into something more serious. They make time for you and they stay in touch with you.
When a man opens the door to dating he either wants the freedom to have fun, be intimate and date whom he pleases or he is looking for a serious relationship. There's no in between.
Here is how you know he has lost interest in you:
Too often, we don't listen to these signs and instead rationalize these statements by telling ourselves "he is going through a tough time at work, home, going through a divorce, bad break-up or major loss in his life".
If he isn't suggesting that you get together again, planning a night out or calling you to catch up, then he isn't that interested anymore. When someone is still interested, they make the effort to start developing the relationship into something more serious. They make time for you and they stay in touch with you.
When a man opens the door to dating he either wants the freedom to have fun, be intimate and date whom he pleases or he is looking for a serious relationship. There's no in between.
