Dating with that special guy has been going well and the chemistry is palpable. You have decided that it is time to take the relationship to the level of sexual intimacy. This one may be Mr. Right and you dont want to mess things up you are hoping to deepen the connection between you two.
Men Need as Much Love and Reassurance as You Do
You know how nervous you get when you've fallen in love and you're anticipating those first few sexual encounters? Dont forget that your potential passion partner is just as nervous as you are! Remembering this will help you to relax, to not worry as much about everything having to be perfect, and to let him into your heart.
Sexual intimacy can make one feel vulnerable and can bring out relationship issues that can interfere with elevating the partnership to one of deep love and respect. The following tips will help you avoid these pitfalls and to enhance and express the exhilarating chemistry the two of you are feeling.
1. Don't Play Emotional Games
Emotional games are all about deception, and there's no place for that in the bedroom.
Games to Avoid:
Try to Guess How I'm Feeling
First I Want You, Then I Don't
No Matter What You Do, I'm Not Impressed
You're Not Getting Sex Until I See The Ring
Don't Use Sex as a Manipulation Tool:
To get a man to do what you want
To convince him to continue seeing you when he's already indicated he wants to break up
To get even with him for something he did by seducing him and than acting as if he's a terrible lover
2. Be Yourself
Don't try to become the kind of woman you think your partner wants in bed. If you aren't into wild, adventurous sex, don't try to act that way. If you feel emotional, and find yourself wanting to cry, don't hold back. If you are a little shy and inexperienced, don't pretend you've had sex hundreds of times. The more natural you are, the easier it will be for you and your partner to connect from the heart and really make love.
3. Warning Signs of Potential Problems
Having sex with someone is a very revealing experience. You will learn things about a man when you're in bed with him that you wouldn't learn in any other way. Pay attention to any warning signs pointing to potential problems:
Your partner is very controlling in bed
Your partner races to get sex over with quickly
Your partner is an insensitive, selfish lover
Your partner is totally inexpressive
4. Be honest About Your Feelings
Tell your partner what you like and dislike
Let him know how you feel
Be emotionally open so he can also be emotionally open
Talk together when you're not in bed about your attitudes toward sex, your wants and needs
5. Be Emotionally Generous, Not Emotionally Stingy
When you're in bed with the man you love, use words (and sounds) to show him how you are feeling. Let your passion out!
You have probably noticed by now that communication with your lover is essential in establishing a connection and sexual comfort with each other. It is also important that you both feel trust and genuineness in how you relate. Embracing these tips will help you to take that next step into a deeper intimacy that can lead to a long-lasting and satisfying relationship.
Men Need as Much Love and Reassurance as You Do
You know how nervous you get when you've fallen in love and you're anticipating those first few sexual encounters? Dont forget that your potential passion partner is just as nervous as you are! Remembering this will help you to relax, to not worry as much about everything having to be perfect, and to let him into your heart.
Sexual intimacy can make one feel vulnerable and can bring out relationship issues that can interfere with elevating the partnership to one of deep love and respect. The following tips will help you avoid these pitfalls and to enhance and express the exhilarating chemistry the two of you are feeling.
1. Don't Play Emotional Games
Emotional games are all about deception, and there's no place for that in the bedroom.
Games to Avoid:
Don't Use Sex as a Manipulation Tool:
2. Be Yourself
Don't try to become the kind of woman you think your partner wants in bed. If you aren't into wild, adventurous sex, don't try to act that way. If you feel emotional, and find yourself wanting to cry, don't hold back. If you are a little shy and inexperienced, don't pretend you've had sex hundreds of times. The more natural you are, the easier it will be for you and your partner to connect from the heart and really make love.
3. Warning Signs of Potential Problems
Having sex with someone is a very revealing experience. You will learn things about a man when you're in bed with him that you wouldn't learn in any other way. Pay attention to any warning signs pointing to potential problems:
4. Be honest About Your Feelings
5. Be Emotionally Generous, Not Emotionally Stingy
When you're in bed with the man you love, use words (and sounds) to show him how you are feeling. Let your passion out!
You have probably noticed by now that communication with your lover is essential in establishing a connection and sexual comfort with each other. It is also important that you both feel trust and genuineness in how you relate. Embracing these tips will help you to take that next step into a deeper intimacy that can lead to a long-lasting and satisfying relationship.
